Some UCSD student organizations and events are affiliated with outside groups. While the vast majority of groups may be helpful and beneficial to you, some may use high-pressure tactics to recruit students. The information below can help you make an informed, free choice about associating with such groups.
Why are high-pressure groups so harmful?
- They tend to isolate you from family, friends, and other groups.
- They may ask you to give up control of your thoughts or decisions.
- They may focus on guilt and shame.
- They may promote crises with school, your career, or your social life.
What are warning signs of a high-pressure group?
Ask yourself these questions: Does the group or its representatives:
- Speak in a derogatory way about your past religious affiliation?
- Describe your parents as unable to understand or help you with religious matters?
- Label your doubts and questions as signs of a weak faith?
- Invite you on a retreat but can't (or won't) give you an overview of the purpose or activities before you go?
- Insist that you spend so much time with them that you can't get your studying done or you don't have time for your other friends and activities?
- Pressure you to get others involved in the group
- Discourage you from keeping in touch with your family and friends or not allow you to talk to your friends or your family alone?
- Deflect questions you ask about their group and tell you they'll answer your questions later?
- Claim to have the answers to your problems and that you can't find answers anywhere else?
- Pressure you to give them money?
Answering "yes" to one or two questions doesn't mean that a group is destructive or harmful, but it does mean you should proceed slowly and investigate the group more carefully.